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©1995 Babette Rothschild, MSW, LCSW
Member: National Association of Social
Workers International and European Societies
for Traumatic Stress Studies
PAPER PRESENTED AT THE 5th EUROPEAN CONGRESS
OF BODY-PSYCHOTHERAPY April 27-30, 1995,
Carry-Le Rouet, France
OPENING
I now routinely state the following
"disclaimer" before I teach a course or give
a lecture: What I am about to offer is
theory and speculation - which is what most
of psychology, and for that matter science,
is. This means that no matter how pedantic
and self assured I sound, I know that my
statements are no more than my considered
opinion. What I am hoping to achieve here is
not so much to convince you of my point of
view, as to stimulate thought, ideas and
discussion.
INTRODUCTION
When I received the schedule of
presentations for this conference, I was
somewhat dismayed to realize that I had not
offered a workshop on Post-traumatic Stress
Disorder - my area of specialization. It's
not that I had forgotten that the issue of
supporting defenses was important - but I
suspected that you knew that. So, why
propose a presentation that you would just
agree with? Then I remembered the time frame
in which I prepared my proposal. Several
events were significant:
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I had recently attended a friend's
therapy as a support. During the
therapy, my friend cried with shame
about a defense that I honestly admired.
She was astonished that I could wish to
be more like her in an area where she
felt such shame. My regarding her
defense as a resource had a strong
impact on her. It was my turn to be
astonished when the therapist - a very
experienced and talented person -
interrupted our contact saying, "Well,
let's get back to work !" Somehow the
therapist had not considered support of
my friend's defense as significant
"work".
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At an international body-psychotherapy
conference I had heard a trainer remark
with irritation, "how can I work with
clients who won't let me touch them?!".
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I had recently consulted in several
cases where clients were being
encouraged - sometimes required - to
give up defenses: one, convinced by her
therapist that the less boundary she
had, the more she could access her
process, was becoming increasingly
decompensated; another, who had been
required by his therapist to stop
arguing, felt he had lost a strength;
and a TA therapist still convinced that
"pig parents" (the introject of a
punishing and/or destructive parent)
should be destroyed.
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I was also struggling with the results
of a recent confrontation with one of my
own clients where I angrily confronted a
defense and she quit the therapy. My
supervisor strongly supported my
confrontation. These experiences
bothered me. I concluded that it must
not be so easy to put the principle of
supporting defenses into practice. I
came to believe that the topic might be
relevant after all. As I was preparing
the presentation, I also had some new
thoughts about the difference between
character and trauma defenses, and
decided to integrate that aspect, too.
ON DEFENSES
Let's review the basics: One definition of
"defense" in my Webster's Dictionary is: a
means or method of defending or protecting
oneself, one's team, or another. This
definition certainly applies to
psychological defense, which is also a
protection. Without psychological defense,
we human beings would not survive with our
sanity and/or our bodies intact. Because of
their survival and protective functions,
defenses are inherently positive. They are
formed to preserve our sanity and life. The
positive role of defenses is also discussed
in the DSM IV in a section proposing a
"Defensive Functioning Scale" (See: APA,
1994):
Defense mechanisms (or coping styles) are
automatic psychological processes that
protect the individual against anxiety and
from the awareness of internal or external
dangers or stressors....Defense mechanisms
mediate the individual's reaction to
emotional conflicts and to internal and
external stressors.
I like the term "coping styles" to refer to
defenses, it acknowledges their positive
value. One of my first clients at my first
job in 1976 was a young, very schizoid,
woman. My supervisor asked me to evaluate
the client in many areas, including the
defense mechanisms she used. As I mulled
over Anna Freud's book on defense mechanisms
(See: Freud, 1948), I came to the conclusion
that much of my client's problem was that
she lacked defenses. She couldn't repress,
she couldn't sublimate, etc. She was
overwhelmed by her feelings and experiences.
She had no protection from them. One of the
first things I did with her was to teach her
how to not answer a question. She had no
defense from the inquiry of others. She felt
she had to answer all questions, and answer
them truthfully. I taught her other options:
"I don't know"; "I don't want to talk about
that now"; "Let's talk about ______
instead"; or to give short, partial answers.
I also taught her to ask questions, herself,
to get the focus away from her: "And how are
you ?", etc. That young woman desperately
needed defenses. As a Radix Teacher in the
early 1980's I had experienced personally,
and with some of my clients, that the
traditional Reichian methods of breaking
down defenses could, in some cases, lead to
breakdown and even psychosis (See:
Rothschild, 1991). I discovered that I as
well as some of my clients, needed to build
up defenses - in both body and mind.
Defenses must, I came to believe, have a
positive function. But why, I wondered, are
they such a problem? Defenses are usually
formed in childhood and/or under extremes of
stress or threat where behavioral options
and resources are limited. One resulting
problem is that once we create a defense to
survive a particular situation, we tend to
generalize it to other related (even
distantly related) situations. We often keep
using the same defense, even when it is not
needed or appropriate. A defense, used
outside of the context of the specific
situation for which it was designed, can be
- and often is - limiting. Two hypothetical
examples:
1) If my father became angry when I needed
help as a kid, then I may have given up
asking for help, for fear of getting an
angry response. It may not even occur to me
that I need help from time to time, or that
not everyone would become angry with such a
request. Holding back my need for help as a
child protected me from my father's wrath.
But holding it back as an adult may keep me
isolated, frustrated, and/or just plain
tired. 2) If while being beaten and then
raped, I reflexively froze to stop the
rapist from further beating, I may still "go
dead" while having sex with my husband. What
saved me in the one situation, may be
limiting my pleasure and contact now.
Another problem I see with defenses, is that
they tend to be one-sided. Almost any
defensive behavior is, in some situations, a
resource - but not when we're stuck with it
as the only option. I'll quote from my
presentation description:
1) Defensive withdrawal is a resource - who
doesn't need to withdraw at times? But
withdrawal can be a problem when it is an
automatic defensive reaction and is not
balanced by, the ability to reach out after
contact. The opposite is also true: a
defense of constantly needing contact, is
missing it's balance: the ability to
withdraw and be alone. 2) Tense, defended
shoulders, may help conquer stressful
situations. But problems develop when one
can't also choose to relax. Again, the
opposite: chronically slack shoulders may
enable one to quickly give up in a losing
situation, but may be a problem when it
could be useful to tolerate stress.
COUNTERTRANSFERENCE AND DEFENSE
I suspect that you will agree with me that
helping a client to appreciate his defenses
is a desired goal. You will also likely
agree that this is often easier said than
done, the biggest obstacle, I believe, being
our own countertransference. I mentioned
earlier that a client of mine had recently
quit therapy after I had angrily confronted
her defense. She had been complaining for 2
years that she lacked friends, but continued
to resist all my brilliant support and
interventions - psychological, body and
behavioral - to help her build a network.
One day I lost my patience with her. I
confronted rather than supported her
defensive resistance, with an attitude of
"either do something about it or quit
complaining". She was crushed, disappointed
and angry with me. She felt betrayed. She
quit therapy a couple of weeks later, saying
she was ready to be on her own, including
developing a network. Was that a positive
step for her, or did my confrontation push
her into compensation? My supervisor
believed I had done the right thing. She
thinks I waited too long to confront her. I
am not so sure. I was not in a particularly
good mood the day of the confrontation.
Could my mood - my countertransference -
have influenced my judgment? Is my
supervisor's support from her sound
judgment, or her own countertransference? I
don't know.
CHARACTER AND TRAUMA
Understanding usually increases my ability
to tolerate frustration - also with
defenses. I have found it useful to
distinguish two classes of defense. Each is
expressed differently in the body and each
protects survival in different ways:
Character Defenses protect the survival of
the psychological self (core self, sanity,
spirit, center) and include the standard
defense mechanisms that we are most familiar
with. Trauma Defenses protect the survival
of the physical self and include the
reflexes of fight, flight, and freeze and,
the phenomenon of dissociation.
Character defenses appear to be mediated by
the Central Nervous System (CNS). The CNS is
responsible for muscle contraction, and
thereby, for body movement. The CNS is
involved in all forms of learned behavior,
including the formation of character
defenses. The balance between the
Sympathetic (SNS) and Parasympathetic (PSNS)
branches of the Autonomic Nervous System
(ANS) may also play a role in character
defense formation, depending on the degree
of stress or frustration involved. Character
defenses are formed during development in
response to differing interactions and
frustrations within our growing-up
environment. The developmental theory
postulated by the Bodynamic Institute lends
an excellent understanding to the
interaction of motor development and
psychological development. Their theory
describes how psychological defenses can be
expressed in the body as either overly
tensed or overly slack muscles (See: Bentzen,
Jørgensen and Marcher, 1989). Something that
I would like to add to their - as well as
other - theories of personality formation is
how the motor and psychological responses
that become defenses are conditioned.
Character Defenses are developed through
repetitive interactions that modify
behavior. They serve to protect the
psychological self from pain, anxiety,
and/or frustration: i.e., if we repeatedly
can't get what we need, we stop needing; if
the expression of an emotion repeatedly
results in rejection, we stop that
expression; etc. I've gone back to my first
college psychology course and the work of
the experimental psychologist, B.F. Skinner,
to better understand the foundation of
character defense formation. It occurs to me
that character defenses are formed through a
kind of operant conditioning - do you
remember the "Skinner Box?" Skinner's most
basic experiment with operant conditioning
involved a bird in a box that would get food
pellets when it tapped a lever. When the
lever tapping was consistently reinforced
(the bird received one food pellet for each
tap of the lever), the bird continued to tap
the lever. When the bird didn't get food
(non-reinforced), it quickly gave up tapping
on the lever. When it got intermittent
reinforcement (one food pellet for a random
number of lever taps), it continued tapping
the lever - sometimes frantically -, whether
or not it got food (See: Skinner 1961).
Basically, the bird connects the cause and
effect of its lever pressing and being fed.
It continues it's behavior accordingly,
either: when I press this lever, I get food;
when I press it I don't; or I don't know
when I'll next get food, so I have to keep
pressing it. People seem to respond in much
the same way to varying kinds of contact.
When an infant receives contact every time
it reaches out, it continues to reach out
when it needs contact. If the infant doesn't
receive contact - for whatever reason - it
gives up reaching out. If the infant gets
intermittent response, it will continue to
have the impulse to reach out, and may
continue frantic reaching out, or block the
impulse in frustration. You can apply this
principle to the development of most if not
all character defenses. Think about the
child who is stopped from expressing anger.
How is the defense that develops different
depending on if he was stopped consistently
or intermittently? What about the
workaholic? Were his achievements overly
reinforced? Or was he never stopped from
frantic activity with appropriate
boundaries? Two case examples:
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A middle-aged man was raised by parents
who were not able to give very much
emotionally. He was a bright child, and
did well in school. His parents were
able to acknowledge his high
achievement. They were very proud of
him. The man became "hooked" on
performance and achievement to maintain
the recognition and attention of his
parents. As an adult he was a workaholic
and perfectionist. He was conditioned to
perform. He came into therapy because of
problems with stress.
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A middle aged woman was raised always to
be sweet and polite. Anger was not
allowed in her home. She never heard her
parents fight. As an adult she was
afraid of conflicts. When she was angry
with a friend, she would just end the
relationship. She had been conditioned
to never be angry. She came to therapy
feeling isolated and lonely.
Trauma defenses, on the other hand, are
clearly mediated by the Autonomic Nervous
System (ANS). The role of the ANS in stress
and trauma, as well as in the development of
Post-Traumatic Stress (PTS) and
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is
well documented in the literature on the
physiology of stress (See, among others:
Bloch, 1985), body-psychotherapy (See, among
others: Levine, 1992; Rothschild, 1993), and
traditional psychology (See, among others:
Scrigner, 1988; van der Kolk, 1993; Everly,
1993). Trauma defenses are formed under
extreme conditions where there is actual or
perceived threat to life. They have the
function of preserving the physical self -
the body. Some trauma defenses are purely
reflexive, regulated by the limbic system of
the brain which is responsible for the
"'four f's' of survival: feeding, fighting,
fleeing and sexual reproduction (See:
Ornstein, 1984)." Other trauma defenses may
be formed by decisions made during traumatic
events. And some trauma defenses are a
combination of decision and reflex. What
trauma defenses all have in common, though,
is very high SNS activation that both
preceded the defense formation, and
continues to hold the defense in place.
Reflexive trauma defenses include: fight,
flight and freezing, and, I believe,
dissociation. Dissociation may be a kind of
inward flight that is used, "...for
psychological survival during overwhelming
events when flight is impossible" (See:
Lowewenstein, 1993). Reflexive defenses are,
as the name implies, reflexes. They are not
something that one chooses with cognition.
They are not conditioned. They are an
instinctive response to extremes of threat
and are used to preserve life. Some
examples:
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Running from a smoky movie theater.
(flight)
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Fighting off an attacker. (fight)
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Going dead during rape. (freeze)
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Out of body experiences during surgery.
(dissociation)
Traumatic defenses formed through decision
have a "trauma logic" of their own. They
always make sense for the situation in which
they were created, but they can have dire
consequences (See: Rothschild, 1994).
Sometimes a trauma decision can be made to
save life, at the risk of sanity, as in the
following case example:
A girl was raped at 5 by a stranger. The
rapist threatened her with death if she ever
told. She believed him. She stood outside
her home struggling to decide if she dared
risk telling her mother, but was too
frightened - frozen - to tell. She never
told anyone. Consequently, she cut off
contact with her mother - who had been a
source of comfort and security - in order,
she believed, to save her life. In her late
teens, and into adulthood, she became more
and more isolated emotionally, depressed and
had periods of psychosis. She attempted
suicide several times. The five year old
believed she was saving her life, she
couldn't have foreseen the consequences her
decision to not tell - with it's resulting
long-term isolation - would have on her
life.
Reflex and decision can combine. Sometimes a
decision during one traumatic event, can
lead to modification of a trauma reflex
during a later traumatic event. The
following is a case example of how a
reflexive flight response was modified by a
decision during a traumatic event, and
became a reflexive freeze response:
A young girl was threatened by a vicious
dog. When she attempted to run (flight
reflex), she was attacked and mauled. She
made a decision that if ever again
threatened, she would not run. Some years
later, while being followed by a big man
down a dark street, she didn't run. The man
attacked her. She suffered a lot of guilt as
a result. She had suspected the man might
attack her. She could have out run him. Why
didn't she run? In therapy she put the two
events together and the significance of her
decision, became apparent. The developed
defense was completely logical and sensible
in the situation involving the angry dogs.
The problem with it was that it was too
general: don't run.
Of course, character defenses and trauma
defenses can have an influence on each
other. The resources and limitations one
brings to a traumatic event will influence
the reflexes that are available and
decisions that are made. The earlier and
more massive the trauma, the more likelihood
that the defensive system will be solely
based on trauma defenses. Trauma, itself can
become a kind of conditioning when repeated.
This is true especially in cases of physical
and sexual abuse, captivity, and torture
(See: Herman, 1992).
SOME PSYCHOLOGICAL STRATEGIES FOR
WORKING WITH DEFENSES
The common denominator of these differing
types of defense is that they are used for
survival. They are all initiated for a
positive purpose. They can't be destroyed or
gotten rid of without damage to the
integrity of the self. A defense will tend
to keep it's hold until it is understood and
appreciated. Most clients will feel relief
just to realize their defense really was for
a good reason. Accepting and appreciating a
defense is, of course, the first step in
dealing with it. Editing a defense can also
be an important strategy. In the example of
the "don't run" decision mentioned above,
what is needed is to specify when to run,
and when not to run. De-generalizing a
defense can also be a good editing strategy:
who does this defense really apply to? Do
you need it with everyone? In all
situations? etc. Developing additional
options can be important - as I described in
my presentation description. For example:
Yes, continue to withdraw when you want to;
you need to be able to do that. And, are
there any circumstances in which you would
like to have, or try to have contact? Often
a character defense needs to be updated. For
example, the person who stopped asking for
help because of dad's anger needs to update
his situation. Is there anyone in his life
now that he might be able to ask? A trauma
defense will always need to be updated. This
will help the client towards the realization
that the traumatic event is no longer taking
place, and that he has, in fact, survived.
When working with trauma, support of the
defenses is particularly central. Before a
client can work with trauma issues, he needs
to feel safe, and that won't be possible if
defenses - either psychological or body -
are being challenged, confronted or broken
down.
SOME BODY STRATEGIES FOR WORKING
WITH DEFENSES
The first step in working with body defenses
is the same as for the psychological ones -
acceptance. In addition to accepting how
the, defensive tension or slackness is or
has been protective or supportive
psychologically, one needs to feel how it is
protective physically. Uncovering the
message in the bodily defense using body
awareness can be of value. A case example:
I was consultant on a case where the client
was ill and throwing up after each therapy
session. Of course this was interfering with
his courage to continue his therapy. I
worked with the client and therapist
exploring, with body awareness, what the
nausea might be about. This led to work with
boundaries and the physical space between
client and therapist. The client felt more
ill when the therapist was close by, and
less when the therapist withdrew at least 2
meters. The nausea was further lessened when
the therapist turned and looked away. The
message became clear to us all - the
therapist had been too close. In subsequent
therapy sessions, the client paid much more
attention to his need for physical distance
from the therapist, and ceased to be ill
after his sessions.
Body awareness can also be used when the
body defense is tension or slackness.
Stretching a tense muscle, or tensing a
slack one accompanied by body awareness will
give a lot of information about the defense.
Sometimes it will be pleasant to stretch a
tense muscle, sometimes it won't. The same
is true for tensing slack muscles. Using
body awareness, you can usually avoid the
problems caused by releasing a tense muscle
too much, or prematurely. Body awareness
will also help avoid tensing muscles that
need to remain slack. Nausea and spacing-out
are usual signs of overly tensing a slack
muscle. If you get an undesirable response,
you can always make the opposite movement -
i.e., re-stretch the slack muscle, or
re-tense the tense one - to erase the
effect. Of course, body defenses aren't only
expressed as tension or flaccidity. Over-
and underweight, some illness, addictions,
conversion symptoms, etc. can also be bodily
expressed defenses.
EXERCISES FOR WORKING WITH DEFENSES
I. Muscle Defense
Choose a muscle defense that is troublesome
to you. It can be either an area of tension
or slackness. Make a few notes about how
this defense has been or is useful to you -
how it may protect you.
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Using body awareness, take an inventory
of your current bodily state. Use terms
like the following to describe it to
yourself (it can be a good idea to write
down key words for what you notice).
hot, cold tense, relaxed big, small
restless, calm movement, still dizzy
shivers, prickles pressure, pulling
rotation, twist contraction breathing:
location and depth pulse pain, burning
vibration, shaking weak, strong sleepy,
awake yawning light, heavy soft, hard
position in space tight, loose crooked,
straight Don't describe your body
awareness in terms of energy, energy
flow or emotions. And don't use
conclusions, such as "nervous" - there
are always bodily clues that lead to
such conclusions, e.g., shaking hands,
raised heart beat and cold sweat under
the arms.
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Next, if you choose a tense muscle,
stretch it; if you choose a slack
muscle, tense it. You may have to try
some different movements to isolate the
muscle and get the right direction on
your stretch or tense. Do the movement
slowly and continuously. STOP before you
reach the point of pain or exhaustion.
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What body awareness do you notice in the
muscle you are working with?
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Release the stretch or tense very
slowly.
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What awareness do you notice now in that
muscle?
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What awareness do you notice in the same
muscle on the other side of your body?
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What do you notice in your whole body?
Is it the same or different than when
you started?
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What conclusions do you draw about that
muscle defense and the action you tried
with it? Do you want to stretch or tense
it more?
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If you are feeling nauseous, dizzy or
anxious, make the opposite action with
the muscle you were working with, e.g.,
tense the muscle you stretched, or
stretch the muscle you tensed.
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Then check your body awareness again.
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What conclusions do you draw from your
reaction? Consider that if you had an
unpleasant reaction, you may need to
keep that tension or slackness - at
least for a while longer.
II. Psychological Defense
Either writing alone or in conversation with
a friend, colleague or therapist, discuss
how you have survived in your life.
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What are the tools, resources, attitudes
and defenses (body and psychological)
that has made it possible for you to be
where you are today?
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Choose one of your currently troublesome
defenses.
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Where and how have you used that defense
to survive?
III. Countertransference and
Client Defenses
1) Choose one of the following to discuss
with a colleague:
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A general pattern of client defense that
is particularly difficult for you to
support.
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A particular client defense that has
been difficult for you to deal with.
2) Discuss the countertransference aspects
that may be relevant to you.
3) Is there an issue for you to work on that
would make it easier for you to accept this
defense in your clients?
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